the village of hope seeks to help children infected or affected by hiv, aids and tb in two different ways: we have a 9 bed children's unit to support those infected by hiv and aids and we also run a community-based sports and lifeskills outreach in the informal settlements and squatter camps each afternoon.

this blog has been set up to allow the key members of the team at the village of hope to share their thoughts, photos and experiences as we work in the community of grabouw in south africa

Thursday, January 31, 2013

it's time to say goodbye...and hello!


all that stuff for two little angels!...time to say goodbye
 after three years with us at the village of hope
(sorry i cut your head off mommy mel!)
these last few weeks have been a bit of a roller coast ride, what with the farm workers strikes which meant that we were unable to provide services to over 450 patients via our thembacare hospice in grabouw, including the temporary closing of our six bed inpatient unit and obviously the passing of our dear little assi, who's memorial service was so well attended yesterday afternoon. however today we are also dealing with another change here at the village of hope.

we have been so blessed to be able to provide a home to two wonderful children for over three years, but as part of their next steps we have had to say goodbye to them this morning. we know that God has a very big plan for their lives and we are very excited about what that might look like but i wonder if we could ask you all to continue to pray for us as a team, especially mommy maz and mommy mel, as well as our house moms, who are almost mourning their passing too!

all that stuff for a six month stay!, welcome shannon.
with these two little ones leave that now means that we have placed our 31st and 32nd children either back with their biological family or into other care which will enable them to receive the loving and support that they need. we are  so privileged to have been used to provide a home for these little guys and we look forward to the next stage of development here at the village of hope.

and on that note it's great for us to announce the arrival of our latest volunteer who will be joining our team for at least the next six months, and although shannon arrived on tuesday evening, from some random place in california, her baggage was lost by the airlines and only arrived this morning. we trust that her time with us will be fulfilling and we are also excited to see what that might develop into over the next few months.

Tuesday, January 29, 2013

the passing of our wonderful assi...and facebook page

words can't really express the feelings i have as i write this short post but i'm sure many of you will now be aware that our wonderful little assi passed away at our sister project thembacare in athlone last friday morning.

assi was not just your ordinary young kid, those who came into contact with him will forever have been touched by this little life, it was a blessing for me to have known assi, to have laughed, cried, fought and played with him was a true privilege.

the whole of the thembalitsha foundation also had a huge soft spot for assi and his passing will not only be mourned by us here at the village of hope, but also at thembacare grabouw who had the opportunity to impact his life on many occasions and we thank thandi and especially joyce for the work that they did with him. however it will be thembacare athlone where his presence will be most missed, he spent time with noma and her amazing team both prior to his stay with us at the village of hope and he obviously passed away under their care last week, bless you noma and your team from providing a loving home for him there during his last days.

obviously there are loads of people who have fond memories of assi and we are sure that they would like to say their special goodbye's maybe share a memory or two via photo, video or just using words, so we have set up a page on facebook for them to do so please follow this link to assi's virtual memory board and lets tell the world about this amazing young man and in doing so thank God for his life.

God bless you assi, missing you already, but knowing that you are now at peace and maybe having a little too much fun up there....hope you got a lekker moooto (bakkie) and are enjoying an endless feast of inyama (meat)...see you soon....uncle tim x

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

mermaids swim for hope!

there are some amazing people around the world who support the work we do here in south africa, people have walked around islands (no not robinson crusoe), biked to various places in europe (lance?! :-)), jumped out of planes, run marathons, had their heads shaved, put on school productions to name but a few but this time we have a group of crazy students from warwick university who are planning to swim around 10 miles down (or up) the river thames in the middle of an english winter.

we are so blessed to have these wonderful people place their very lives at risk to raise a few pennies to help the cause here in south africa. if you would like to show your support to haddy and her friends then please visit their page on the justgiving web site by clicking here!

we wish you well mermaids and look forward to hearing all about it very soon.


Sunday, January 20, 2013

into the thirties with another home placement

goodbye uncle rob.....
life at the village of hope can be very fragile, relationships come and go, be they with the volunteers who come to spend time at the project or the children we are here to help, and as we have said before it's never easy to say goodbye.

last week we had another goodbye to go through, this time we said our sad but in some way happy goodbye's to a three year old little girl who had been with us for around three months, and whom we have seen develop beyond recognition since she has been with us.

we didn't have much time to plan for her departure as thing had moved on a pace during the recent unrest but she is a feisty little character who likes to have her own way, and in one way that will prove very useful in the future as she returns to a family in the local formal settlement (township)...the last thing we were able to do before she left was sort out her schooling and she will be starting pre-school on monday morning, where she will be joining two other children from the village of hope, so we are confident that our paths will cross again!

Thursday, January 17, 2013

January News


The Christmas period was a wonderful time in the children’s unit. With the school children on holiday, we made the most of it and took trips to the beach when we could. We were donated a fantastically glitzy Christmas Tree by some of our neighbours who run a Christmas decoration company and that helped add some festive spirit to our usual surroundings.

We were very happy to be able to spend Christmas Day hosted by The Weigmans, a wonderful couple from our local church who opened their home to all 24 of us (including visiting family) for a beautifully relaxed day by their pool. We were able to coax the children into the water and encourage them to play with all the inflatables and just relax and have fun together. The children received some gorgeous shoeboxes full of presents from the generous folk at Operation Shoebox. As you can imagine, they were very excited.

As you may have heard, 2013 has started with a lot of tension here in Grabouw and there has been strike action this past week which has had us all on high alert. The protesting has included fires and looting and at one stage we had 200 people going past our front gate. The local farmers have been on patrol 24 hours a day trying to protect the farms and the sound of gunshot has not been unfamiliar either. It has been very disconcerting and we are trying just to keep carrying on with our usual activities but it has been tiring being alert all the time and it has been difficult to get staff in on occasions.

Obviously our major concern is for our staff and children that we work with who live in the community and are closest to all the action. We have been praying for their safety through all of this and the striking does seem to have calmed down since the beginning of the week.

Although this is happening, this week sees another one of our children take his first step into preschool. We can’t believe he is starting! – It only seemed yesterday we were looking after a 2-week-old bundle of baby!


Community Work

Sports Outreach:
Our community work took a break over the long summer holidays which gave us time to bless our sports mentors this month with a trip to Green Point stadium to watch South Africa play football against Norway. It truly was a great time for the 16 young people  and for some of them it was their first experience of the big city a quite a culture shock.


Other News

Sleigh:
Fast becoming a Village of Hope tradition, we took our make-shift sleigh around the town the Friday before Christmas. Complete with Johan as our South African Father Christmas, we towed the sleigh behind the bakkie and gave our sweets and apples to the children. Although this may seem a trivial to do for a community in such need, it really does bring a smile to everyone’s face and spread a little joy.

Volunteers:
We have been very happy to have lots of family visitors over the Christmas and New Year period and of course, we hoodwinked them into helping us out with our work whilst they were here!

We also said ‘au revoir’ to Tim Berger who served with us for all of 2013 and was a fantastic complement to the maintenance team. Tim isn’t actually leaving Grabouw but it moving on to do some other work and will still come and help us out when he has time.

Towards the end of the month we will be welcoming Shannon, from America, who is coming to serve with the other long-term volunteers and the Stuttgart Architect students will be returning for their third visit and be developing our buildings and land further – watch this space because this time there is going to be a big change!


How You Can Help
We are never short of ideas on how you can help us out!!!!
• Become a regular monthly giver - Regular givers are like gold dust to us!!!
• Fundraise – Commit to shave your head, host a quiz night, do a sporting event (it doesn’t have to be cycling)!!!!! – The possibilities are endless and can raise R10000s with enough enthusiasm!
Pray – need we say more?!

For more information contact us fundraiser@thembalitsha.org.za


Volunteering
We rely heavily on committed volunteers to do the stuff here in South Africa. It can be a fantastic way to give (and receive!) However, we do have some criteria you have to meet in order to apply. For more information on volunteering for Thembalitsha please check out our website or email us at volunteer@thembalitsha.org.za.

Also, please do NOT book ANY flights before your application form has been accepted. Thank you!

Up And Coming Events
For further details check out our Facebook page:
www.facebook.com/thembalitshafoundation

Charity Single

It doesn’t matter what country you are in. Everyone can benefit from this! The fantastically generous and talented folk of up and coming British band, Being Buffalo, have released a track especially for us! And it sounds great too! We get 50% of every sale so please let your friends and family know about this! You can find the track for download here:

http://beingbuffalo.bandcamp.com/album/hope-charity-download

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

hi ho hi ho its off to school we go....

walking out with his little school bag

we can hardly believe that the little bundle of joy that arrived at the village of hope aged just five days has taken his first steps along his journey in education, yes today he starts his first day at preschool aged three years. he joins our other little girls, one who has moved up into reception class which is a very big step for her too!

for this little boy it will be a huge step, he has had little contact with his family and most of his experience has been in our children's unit at the village of hope, please pray that he has peace and makes lots of new friends, and that he also knows we will be back to pick him up at 12 o'clock.


joining his other new friends who started school today
with mommy maz!

Thursday, January 10, 2013

praying for peace....

we don't wanna get into the politics of it all but please pray for our wonderful little town which is going through some tough times at the minute. for more info on the news reports then visit these web sites EWN, IOL or news24 for more info.

Wednesday, January 9, 2013

theres nor way that norway can win!l

view from signal hill
the title of this post refers to the banter that the sports mentors and older sports outreach kids were having with me before the bafana bafana game in cape town's greenpoint stadium last night, however for those of you who follow international football (that's the real european type, sometimes wrongly called to as soccer, and not the american style 'football', which is more like rugby with padding!) then you will know that in fact the little country of norway turned the tables on the south african national team and did indeed beat them 1-0.

can i take a picture
the game was of little importance as a sporting spectacle due to the fact that it was only a friendly, providing some much needed match practice for the south african team before they host the african cup of nations (similar to the european championships and not to be confused with anything which might be referred to as a world series, which would only include one country!) later this month. but saying that it was of great importance to our band of sports mentors who had never seen their countrymen play in the flesh before.

watching the warm up
although the game didn't start until 8.15pm, later changed to 8.30pm for some reason or another, we set off in rob's trusty land rover and the village of hope's hyundai H1 at around 3 o'clock and picked up 14 boys and 2 young ladies from the various areas, informal and formal settlements of grabouw, and set off down the mountain to cape town to enjoy an afternoon of fun before the big event.

another corner to bafana bafana
it is a real privilege to take these young adults anywhere, many of them have a very limited knowledge of anything outside their home, or home town, so to show them the sights of cape town, the magnificent table mountain, the harbour, beaches, tall office blocks and the waterfront is somewhat eyeopening on both sides.

our first view of the greenpoint stadium was from the rump of lions head, commonly know as signal hill, this little tourist spot provides a wonderful vista over the beaches of sea point towards robben island, of which the boys seemed very pleased to see as well! we then ventured down into cape town's waterfront where we enjoyed a meal at mcdonalds. all of this was a revelation to some of the boys who were keen on taking photos of each other eating their quaterpounder with cheese meal!

after the meal we had one of the most memorable experiences, we had entered the first floor restaurant via the stairs but as we left to go down towards the stadium two of the boys created quite a scene when confronted by a moving staircase (an escalator to me and you) which they were very skeptical to step onto. it's incredible to think that these older teenage boys had never taken the ride down an escalator but that in a way is the conundrum that we live with in south africa. for a few it is a country of western standards which people take for granted, for the majority it is a land that basic housing, sanitation and services are something to long for and things that one takes for granted are new, exciting and sometimes scary to others. (for further experiences please visit our previous posts entitled supporting mentors and sports mentors united in cape town)

excitement was building as we entered the stadium, we found our seats after being searched at the security point which was another point of hilarity, and the boys faces lit up as they saw their hero's warming up right in front of them.

the game was a bit of a mixed bag and you can visit sports sites to read up on what the reporters had to say about the tactics, the abilities and perhaps the prospects of bafana bafana in the upcoming tournament, all i will say is that south africa had all the possession with little fire power upfront, norway played well, shut down in midfield and scored with perhaps their only real opportunity of the game.

our journey home was almost as eventful as they boys were keen to stay together, never being in such a large crowd my hand was gripped by a 17 year old boy who was so worried about getting lost in the dark in the middle of a big city (and rightly so), the bright lights of the city reflected in their excited eyes, win, lose or draw they were going to have an amazing time and i feel honoured to be able to serve these guys who support our work week in week out as we try to bring a little highlight into the lives of the 200 or so children we work with via our sports outreach.

a great time was had by all, arrived home just after midnight where many boys went back to their simple shacks and the conundrum started all over again as i dropped them off into those homes with no electricity or running water knowing that my house was just up the track and a security light would brighten my way to my soft bed.

we wish bafana bafana all the best for the cup of nations and we hope to be able to provide other children with experiences like our 16 mentors had last night.


Tuesday, January 8, 2013

pastures new

we are truly blessed at the village of hope with our wonderful long term volunteers who serve here with us placing no financial burden upon the charity but following their call to think of others before themselves. one of those amazing people is tim berger who has not only faithfully spent the last year with us at the project but had previously lead mission teams from the united states for the last 6 years to work with the thembalitsha foundation.

tim has been a key member of our team supporting johan and heinrich in their duties around the village of hope, taking on a role in our sports outreach and also assisting with our 'rainbow smiles' HIV support group.

during the year tim has been seeking to serve the wider community of grabouw and he has decided to follow that vision that he believes God is leading him to, so he will be leaving our merry band here at the village of hope but we wanted to take this opportunity to publicly thank him for his wonderful handy work and the support he has given during his time with us. so it is with our blessing that we bid him farewell and trust that  he won't be a stranger as we all seek to provide new hope to those most in need in our little town.

thanks tim, for all your work and as a last hurrah he is joining the sports mentors this evening as we venture to cape town to watch bafana bafana play norway at the greenpoint stadium, we trust that this will be a fitting thank you!

Friday, January 4, 2013

2013 to be full of hope.....



christmas day chilling with a coke!
we are sorry for the lack of blog posts over the last week or so but we have experienced some inconvenience with our internet service being cut off and us having some really great family time with the kids and house moms, as well as tim's family being over which has been nice.

on Christmas day we were welcomed to the home of some friends from elgin united church where we and all the kids, house moms and volunteers descended into their space, it was a wonderful time, the house moms and kids swam in the pool and we enjoyed some lovely food together.

waiting for the new pool to fill!
the children received a new paddling pool which has entertained them for many an hour, it's great to see the joy that a simple pool of water can bring.

we also ventured to the beach on new years day, again the house moms and kids enjoyed a chilled time, splashing around in the sea and making sand castles. this is such a wonderful time of the year in cape town and we have been truly blessed with some fantastic weather.

collecting water with mommy maz
not every one's 2013 started with such festivities, 4 children from our local community have died from the effects of diarrhea, which seems incomprehensible in this day and age, however with little access to clean water or basic sanitation the situation can quickly lead to death for these little ones.

i (tim) was able to assist with the funeral transport and support towards the family of a very close friend of mine who's 7 month old sister passed away on Christmas day, the family who have nothing (and i mean nothing) have had a little piece of their joy taken from them and we mourn the passing of their daughter with them.

things have also been interesting around the village of hope as well, with a large section of fencing being stolen over a number of days, we have managed to find some of it in the local community with the police being involved in finding those who are causing havoc around the town. our neighbour has been broken into 3 times over the new year and we praying that he will remain upbeat in a dire situation.

so it is into 2013 we look with hopefulness, we pray peace and joy over all of you and whatever 2013 holds for you we continue to thank God for your support towards the work we are doing here in south africa.